Three moods to find each other again, from closeness to thrills.
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For or Against
7 € Digital game, instant access
Statements to vote on at the same time, then talk through, especially when you disagree.
- 20 statements, 15 minutes
- On your phones, or a printable PDF
- To give: e-card with your message, sent on the day you choose
Contains a few flirty cards: for adults only. Any card can always be skipped.
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Secure payment. Delivered by email, WhatsApp or shareable link. No subscription.
This game is included in The PLAYLOVE Pass: every couple game for 12 months for 39 €. See the Pass
How to play
How to play
Twenty statements about life together, from the practical to the downright saucy. Vote, then defend your position, in good or bad faith.
- Read the statement.
- Each of you votes in secret, for or against: on your two phones in your shared space, or thumbs up or down on three, if you’re playing on one screen.
- Each of you defends your position in 30 seconds, without being interrupted, then follow the little instruction on the card.
- Two fors? Try it for a week. You disagree? Find a version that works for both of you.
Golden rule
Bad faith is allowed, blame isn’t. You can always skip a card, no explanation needed.
Length: 15 to 25 minutes.
Before you play
Each of you says in one sentence what you fancy tonight, and what you would rather avoid. Then pick a slightly silly stop word, say “artichoke”: if either of you says it, the card is set aside, no questions asked, and you move on to the next one laughing.
Your questions
How do we play?
Open the order link on a phone and draw the cards one by one. The same link opens on both your phones, and a printable PDF is included too.
Do we need an account?
No. You buy without an account: the link in your email is all you need to play.
How long does a game last?
From 10 minutes to a whole evening, depending on the game. The number of cards is shown on each page.
Are the cards crude?
No. The tone stays elegant. Spicier levels are clearly marked and for adults only, and you can always skip a card.
Do we keep the game after buying it?
Yes. The order link gives you permanent access to the online game.
Can I give a game as a gift?
Yes, with a gift e-card emailed on the day you choose.
More evenings for two.
Guess each other’s answers, then compare with the real ones.
Dilemmas you each decide on your own, then explain to each other.